The Temple of Black Eroticism Resource CenterTOBE Resource Center is for those seekers on the quest for personal development, improvement and personal achievement.

Here at TOBE  we believe sexuality and spirituality are intertwined. When sexuality is grounded in a loving intimate relationship with another person(s) it can increase our ability to connect with the vastness and wonder of the universe.When spiritual and sexual desires are separate from a loving connection it can become a negative or empty experience. Sexuality and spirituality are both deeply personal and connected to our life force energy. Our attitudes about life, love, care and compassion are all connected to our feelings about sexuality. We all came to this earth through a sexual act. If life is sacred, then so is sexuality.

Unfortunately, sex has been tremendously defiled in our patriarchal culture where sexuality has been paired with shame, control, domination, exploitation and evil. Western culture as taught us to separates sexuality from spirituality. And, in doing so we have became disconnected from one and other.

To heal our spirituality & sexuality means changing our beliefs so that we associate spirituality & sexuality with love, care, joy and freedom. To do this means embarking on a journey where you open your minds to re-think all you have learned about sex-role stereotypes, love, sexuality & spirituality.

TOBE brings Sexuality & Spirituality Together

By booking a Blessing Session we can show you ways to bring more joy and spirit into your life. Please remember in reading these thoughts that there is no judgement and all there is, is love.